I’ve been training my whole life to create this image

Portraits for Leia F in August 2024. Photo by DAVE DABOUR Photography.

I’ve been training my whole life to create this image.

That headline may seem a little strange if you follow my photography career. But it’s true.

Let me start off by introducing you to Leia. She’s a beautiful 7-year-old girl that is autistic. Autism in females is extremely rare. So why have I been training my entire life for this photo? My younger brother has autism. I’ve grown up with autism and its impact on his life as well as my own. I’ve become knowledgeable and accepting of people with autism.

As a dance photographer, I need to be ready to capture motion sometimes with very little notice. As a studio photographer, I need to have lights set up and working in a welcoming environment. Since I mostly photograph dancers, my lights need to be able to freeze motion and capture movement. Then there’s color balance and framing. But that’s boring stuff compared to the subject matter. The important part is being ready to capture a moment.

During my portrait session with Leia, she initially was uncomfortable with having her portraits taken. It was something unusual to her. She went into a strange studio with people she never met before (except for her mother of course) with funny flashing lights and was asked to sit on a stool by herself. Who could blame her? But she enjoys wearing dresses and started being herself.

Is it a perfect image? Of course not. I can list several things I would like to have done differently. But that’s not as important as the subject matter.

I captured four times the number of images than I normally would in a session like this. But it was needed. It was required.

At this one moment in time, she was having fun flinging her hair back and forth and I was lucky enough to capture the moment. That’s good enough for me and hopefully her family will agree, and Leia will like the image as much as I do.

5 Tips on What to Wear for a Holiday Card Photo Session

New Jersey Holiday Portrait Photographer

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Coordinate colors: Choose a color scheme that complements the season and the background. For example, if you’re taking photos in a park with fall foliage, consider wearing earthy tones like brown, green, and orange. You don’t have to match exactly, but make sure everyone’s outfits look good together.

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  • Layer up: The weather can be unpredictable during the holiday season, so it’s a good idea to layer up. Wear a sweater or a jacket over your outfit to keep warm and add visual interest to your photos. You can always take off a coat just before the photo
Family portraits for the Wolcott family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

Accessorize: Accessories can add personality and style to your photos. Consider wearing hats, scarves, or jewelry that complement your outfit and the color scheme.

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Avoid busy patterns: Busy patterns can be distracting in photos. Instead, opt for solid colors or subtle patterns that won’t clash with the background or other people’s outfits.

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Wear comfortable shoes: You’ll probably be standing and walking around during the photo session, so make sure you wear comfortable shoes that won’t hurt your feet. Sneakers or boots are good options for outdoor photo sessions.

Have some questions or are you ready to schedule yours? Please contact me for more information!

First Holy Communion Portraits

Holy Communion images created just for Sophia K. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

First Holy Communion is a momentous time in your child’s life. The moment needs to be captured to mark the occasion and to look back on it in the future.

What to wear for first holy communion portraits

Traditional attire for girls. Girls usually will wear the dress or outfit they will be wearing at the service. Typically, this is a white dress that can be suited to your style and budget

Traditional attire for boys. Boy will put on a suit perhaps for the first time in their life! If not a suit, then whatever they will be wearing at the service. Simple shirt and slacks is fine if a suit is not appropriate

Holy communion photos for Tia in 2018. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

Where to take first holy communion portraits

Indoor options. The ideal location is my photography studio. This is ideal because it’s weather independent and the lighting and backdrop will be perfect. If that’s not an option, then someplace with good lighting, near a large window that faces north

Outdoor options. If an outdoor location is desired, you need to think about lighting and backdrop. Try to avoid direct sunlight. A nice, shaded area works well. Then concentrate on what the background of the photo will be. Look for something that is not distracting from your beautiful child.

How to prepare for first holy communion portraits

Skincare and grooming tips. Make sure their hair, face and exposed skin is clean and well groomed. Avoid too much sun leading up to the day of the portrait.

Tips for posing. Besides having a traditional pose of them looking at the camera, try some poses with them looking to the side and up. Also, if they have any props like rosary beads, they can look at them.

Tips for getting the perfect shot. Have the pose on the floor, sitting as well as standing. Kneeling is also another favorite and something they will most likely be doing at the church. Of course, you must keep in mind their attention span. Take too long and you will not have treasured memories. This is why using a professional photographer is recommended. They know how to pose and move quickly. Besides your child is more likely to cooperate with someone they don’t (yet) know.

Creative ideas for first holy communion portraits

Including family members and friends. This is a wonderful time to include other family members in the photo once you get enough of your child by themselves.

Incorporating religious symbols and props. Rosary beads, a bible and or a prayer book make wonderful props for these types of memories.

Candid shots versus posed shots. In between posed shots, get some photos of your child just being themselves. Also get some images of them not looking at the camera and/or interacting with other people

I realize all of this sounds like a lot of work and time. It can be. But it’s an important milestone in your child’s life they will enjoy looking back on when they get older. They will realize the importance of family and recognize these accomplishments and want to pass them onto their family.

Does all of this sound wonderful but you don’t have the expertise to do it yourself? I’m running a limited time special on first holy communion portraits. Contact me today to schedule your session!

Family Portraits on a Cold Day!

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2022 Family portraits for the Travisano family in Clinton on a blustery day in November 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

I’ve had the pleasure of photographing this family for the last several years. It’s a pure joy watching the kids grow up.

2022 Family portraits for the Travisano family in Clinton on a blustery day in November 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

The story behind these photos is the weather. There were gusty winds with unseasonably chilly temperatures that day. I must say everyone did a great job!!!

When was the last time your family portraits were updated? Let’s schedule some time and get ‘er done! We can pick a warmer day than this or better yet in my studio.

Family Portraits for the Wolcott Family

New Jersey & Lehigh Valley Family Portrait Photographer

Family portraits for the Wolcott family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

Family portraits in the fall and around the holidays are the best! The Wolcott family has been trusting me with them for years. Watching the handsome boys grow up is a treasure!

Photographing a 2 1/2-year-old does have its challenges. And rewards.

What started out with a nice portrait of Blake and Kyle quickly turned into a “what about me?” moment for Colby! LOL

Family portraits for the Wolcott family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

But the portrait at the end is the reward!

Family portraits for the Wolcott family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

When was the last time you updated your family portraits? Now booking family portrait sessions. Contact me for more information and to book your session!

Family Holiday Portraits

Family portraits for the Luyben family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

I’ve known this family for years and I’m so glad I do! I not only had the pleasure of photographing their wedding, but their maternity, newborn and at least yearly family portraits. It’s a joy to see them and watch their family grow.

Family portraits for the Luyben family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

I spent quite a bit of time with Santa this weekend and he was nice enough to help me out with a few photos with them as well!

Family portraits for the Luyben family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR
Family portraits for the Luyben family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

I spent a fair amount of time planning this pose and getting ready for it. Emma was a champ and nailed it. But as I’m editing it, I can’t help wondering what she’s thinking: “I’m outside on a sled in the snow…. wearing short sleeves and NO coat!!” LOL. I still love the pose,

Family portraits for the Luyben family in December 2022. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

Every once in a while, (OK maybe every time!) I come up with a wacky pose idea for them. Before I even finished telling them about it, Derek always says “I’m in!” In this one he’s grabbing his wife with a large candy cane. I smile every time I look at his facial expressions!

Ready for some holiday portraits for your family? Hurry while I still have a few open slots! Please call/email and contact me today!

Family Portraits for the Green Family

New Jersey Family Portrait Photographer

Portraits of the Green family in October 2020. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

Had a great time with the Green family in creating an updated family portrait for them.

Family Portraits for the Redgate Family

New Jersey – Lehigh Valley Family Portrait Photographer

Portraits of the Redgate family in October 2020. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

Look at how cute these two are!

Family portraits for the Ireland family

New Jersey – Lehigh Valley Family Portraits Photographer

Portraits of the Ireland family in October 2020. Photo by DAVE DABOUR

One of the many things I love about family portraits is photographing families over the years and watching the kids grow. This family portrait was created just last year but they wanted me back for more this year! We photographed in a new location. The two kids are still as adorable as ever!

Family portraits for the Mandadi family

New Jersey – Lehigh Valley Family Portrait Photographer

Family portraits for the Mandadi family in October 2020

I love it when I first meet a family to create family portraits for them, they ask me if it’s OK to bring their dog. My reply is always the same: yes, if he doesn’t tear off my leg. I remember the dad saying, “that won’t be a problem here!” lol

Fall is a wonderful time to create lasting family memories. My schedule this fall is nearly full with few spots remaining. Contact me today to find out more or to get yours scheduled! Contact me at dave@dabourphoto.com or 908.995.7273